It has been since recorded time that people have said that
youth are less respectful (Plato or Socrates) and that society is going to hell
in a hand basket. Today is no different. We complain about the youth of today
and all of the horrible news about the schools with all of the shootings and
stabbings, but what are we doing about it? I, just like you, have opinions and
they’re probably just as bad as everyone else’s. I too, however, have noticed
that no one knows his or her neighbors and no one seems to check on each other
anymore. “When we were young the world was a much different place” (as it was
in our parents’ time as well). The neighborhood I grew up in, in the 1960’s,
was an area known as Charjean and Airways in Memphis ,TN USA and the neighbors
knew each other and looked after all of us kids and each other. If someone in
your family died your house would be full of food and neighbors dishing it out
to all of the mourners. The love that we had not only came from our parents,
but our friends and their parents. Our parents were not scared for us to stay
out after dark because they knew where we were and who was looking after us,
but it wouldn’t be long before you would hear someone calling or whistling for
their children to come home because the street lights had come on and,
magically, all of us kids would disappear into the comfort and safety of our homes. What I
think is wrong with America today, is that our social networks are impersonal
and long distance and without personal contact. We know more about people
several states away from us, and sometimes people we've never met before, because of all of the digital, texting and
socializing that we are doing today. The world has gotten so impersonal that we
forget
that the person next door has feelings and needs to be wanted and loved.
I can’t help but think that a loving touch or a hug from a neighbor to a
neighbor is more important and rewarding to our soul than how many “likes” you
have collected on what you have written today. Yes, I am caught up in it as
well and I couldn’t tell you all of the neighbors names that live on my street
but I bet my parents could have told you the names of the neighbors that lived
on the adjacent four blocks. It’s a sad state of affairs that we are no longer
in touch, not only with our neighbors, but our extended families, with only the
written word to comfort us. So I do my best to find at least one stranger a day
to say hello to. Love is a universal cure for all that ails us and I also think
it is a good remedy for America’s problems as well and a prayer would not hurt
either.
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